Why I'm Stopping
Friday, January 27, 2012 at 8:06AM First of all, I wanted to thank everyone who helped build, contributed to, and most importantly, read this space over the last couple of years. However, I think it’s time to spend my time and energy on something else. Special thanks to Babs, who helped get this whole thing started, and to E, who’s been unafraid to share his thoughts with what he knew would be a less-than-friendly audience.
It’s odd to kinda pull the plug on this just as election season is getting warmed up, but it’s really been some time coming. It’s not a matter of being tired of talking about things, or no longer wanting to engage in the types of discussions I have. It’s just that the stated goal of the site - to allow lots of people from different backgrounds to participate in a reasonable discussion of what’s important to them - hasn’t happened. While we have a steady, loyal, and decent-sized audience, the participation part never really happened. We had a lot of great monologues and dialogues, but no real “conversations.”
The fact is, Babs and I have been talking about these things via Twitter for several years. E and I have had these EXACT arguments for going on TWENTY years. Hopefully, we’ll continue to do so. It just won’t happen here.
In an odd way, the catalyst for this decision was seeing Gabrielle Giffords at the State of the Union address. It made me remember what the president said as he euologized Christina Taylor - the little girl who was killed during the assassination attempt on Rep. Giffords:
And I believe that, for all our imperfections, we are full of decency and goodness and that the forces that divide us are not as strong as those that unite us.
That’s what I believe, in part because that’s what a child like Christina-Taylor Green believed.
Imagine — can you imagine for a moment, here was a young girl who was just becoming aware of our democracy, just beginning to understand the obligations of citizenship, just starting to glimpse the fact that someday she, too, might play a part in shaping her nation’s future.
She had been elected to her student council. She saw public service as something exciting and hopeful. She was off to meet her congresswoman, someone she was sure was good and important and might be a role model. She saw all this through the eyes of a child, undimmed by the cynicism or vitriol that we adults all too often just take for granted.
I want us to live up to her expectations.
I want our democracy to be as good as Christina imagined it. I want America to be as good as she imagined it. All of us, we should do everything we can to make sure this country lives up to our children’s expectations.
So, that’s what I need to concentrate on. I need to make sure that civic pride - something that I was taught as a kid, something you were probably taught to - exists in my own two daughters. I want them to be proud of their country. I want them to be proud of the people who serve it. I want them to understand that public service - even elected public service - is a noble thing. A difficult thing.
For all our disagreement, E is absolutely right about something - the government can’t, and shouldn’t, do everything. It’s not up to our politicians to turn back from the brink of brinksmanship. It’s not up to them to “clean up the tone of Washington.” It’s up to us. Washington, D.C. doesn’t export vitriol. It imports it. It’s a reflection of us, in every way, both good and bad. When WE stop, THEY will stop. And it’s up to us to make that happen. Maybe not for my generation, maybe not even for my kid’s. But it has to start somewhere. Civic pride needs to make a comeback.
This doesn’t mean to give up on issues and ideas that are important to you. It doesn’t mean anyone should stop fighting for what they think is right. It just means that we stop engaging in political wars that inflict nothing but collateral damage onto our nation’s institutions, and more importantly, it’s pride.
A few years ago, I took my daughter to Washington. We had a blast. We saw the White House (my first trip inside), got a tour of Congress, saw the Smithsonian, the Supreme Court, the Washington Monument, walked the mall, the whole shebang. Izzy loved every second of it, and talks often of going back. She was BLOWN AWAY when we got a Christmas card from the Obamas, and even recognized that she’d been in the room where the State of the Union took place.
Izzy wasn’t geeked over the White House christmas card just because President Obama’s a Democrat. She wasn’t geeked about visiting Congress just because Democrats controlled it. She was geeked about them regardless of those things. It makes me sad to think that someday that excitement will die because grown-ups want to win elections, and I’m going to do what I can to make sure it doesn’t.
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